An Addicts Crave for The Crave - *Wedding Season*

The daily grind in a single life is a brutal one... Lets get down to the GRIT right now... Being single isn't what it's all cracked up to be. Ha- some of you may disagree and say I'm an idiot, "Live it up while you can!" "Take advantage of what you have at the single life! YOU HAVE PLENTY OF TIME!" And honestly, yeah, you are so right, RIGHT?! All the time in the world. But that's the principle itself that people overshoot... People think it's all about--->TIME. It's really not! WHY is that even important? Yes of course, take time to find the right one, yada yada yada... Got that... I'm on it. BUT, I'm tired of hearing people say- "You have plenty of Time! You're in such a great spot! ohhh man live it up!" Well- I've had my 25 years of dating. Over it man. For real it's gettin old! It's not about the fact that I have plenty of Time, I just want what I crave. What we ALL Crave in a sense. Like any addict, or really any crave for that matter- When you're hungry, you crave food, and thirsty- Drink yeah? Like an addict without his squeeze for the day, I need my squeeze. I Guess this is me fessing up thanks to my good Man Robert Palmer-

"Might as Well Face it You're addicted to Love!"

Ha in the song it says "Yeah You Like to think You're immune to the stuff" - yeahhhh That's the thought in the single scene... Right? You are good to go. But I straight up Crave it, Crave the company of someone else. Peeps that are in relationships think, "frick, I really wish I could have a go at the single scene for a while!" --- It's selfish and you suck. Ha for real man!!! I guess I can understand MAYBE you have commitment issues and aren't ready for a Relationship more than what you and your dog share- but if You're in one and don't want to be, You probably don't know how good you have it! You're thinking about YOU YOU YOU, and Not realizing you are already getting YOU YOU YOU. The thought to go Hang with Your BROS! Or Your GIRLS! TIGHHHHHHHHT! Ha- no- It sucks. I've been in it realllll Heavy for a long bit. The majority of the passed 2 1/2 years I have been single. I've been super grateful for the relationships I've had within, and truly learned the most from those people in those times, and the most about me. Not ever searching for something to do, no searching for a date, you always have someone, you always have someone to take care of, and someone to take care of you. Of course if your significant other isn't meeting the criteria, you don't get along and you're not happy sure, skedaddle- but really it is so much easier to have someone than it isn't. The only thing people really look forward too about being single is the random hook up, and feeling wanted by more than one person of the opposite sex at one time..? Tight, soooo we are all in High School again I guess... Yes, I'm venting because I feel like there are some amazing people that really close themselves off because they think they have it good in the single life, which really is just dandy and peeps can choose to do what they want for sure. It's just frustrating, not only for me, but to witness others that give it all they have, and could be a PERFECT match for someone, yet they don't get the opportunity because the thought of a relationship doesn't fit in THEIR, or their friends genre at the moment. I really have dated pretty hard, and do pretty hard. If you and I have ever dated, you know, I'm pretty bold, and sometimes come off really over the top. I'm bold and blunt and am not really worried about what peeps think. Probably not good at times, but I do what I do because I feel like I'm better than A GAME to be played, or I know better than to play it. OR I really like using my brain and my voice, the combination, mixed with emotions called COMMUNICATION. It's Tight. NO BS, No Games, Just straight Honesty. I'll be honest, If I need too, I could play the game, but I hate it, and I suck at things I don't like, This being one of them. Seriously, I consistently meet more and more people that genuinely impress me. Really, VERY FEW have really been impressive passed a first time meeting basis but there really are a lot of amazing people. I'm actually surprised at how many Quote unquote "catches" there are around. Serious Sam here. Really there is only a few things that do keep me dating... One of Which...

WEDDING SEASON

Most People HATE Wedding Season... And Sometimes I'll give off the same notion that I don't like it-(possibly out of desire to be cool like everyone else, ha) but really, I Love it. Yeahhhhppp. I love Wedding Season. Super inspired every chance I get to VICARIOUSLY live my life through a Newly wedded couple. Some people don't like that, I do. I'm a sucker for Love and Romance! Seeing one of my Best friends JD and His Wife talk at their wedding Dinner was so cool- listening to them talk about FALLING IN LOVE, and how they didn't know it could be that good... I felt it! It was legit! And that was only a glimpse. It's beyond inspiring. I can only hope that I have some sort of Love to share with someone someday. I Can't wait. YES I CAN WAIT TO FIND THE RIGHT ONE. Yes I press to get things going with meeting people and really "Getting to Know" the other person, but I can Wait for the right one... I'm sincerely pumped to have a special relationship for sure. I'm so stoked to find someone that I am super pumped on as much as they are of me. Someone that we are just Jazzed to kick it every chance we get. Like I said, I'm over the dating scene... Same old same old for the passed 10+ years here and I'm super over it. Ha- I wanna find a real person, that just has a heart of Gold. Lead by Compassion. I know I'm no perfect person and don't always have all my ducks in a row, but I'm trying, and I can't wait to find someone that inspires me to have them straight, and someone I can help as well. Someone I crave. Someone I want to be addicted too. If I die before I find that Significant other in my life- I hope at least people could know how I felt. I was once told

"Love Happens, So Let it."

I feel that same thing with a lot of things, going back to "TIMING" As I talked about at the beginning of this here gig. People put a time frame on things, a block on things to happen until a certain amount of something, or a destined number of dates before such things to come, or however many days, months, and years before things come to pass. STOP IT! It makes things fake at times, or just not YOU. Don't let the voice of critics paralyze You. Don't let other peoples routes determine how you live your life and the way you go. Love Happens in all sorts of Ways. Realize that You get what you give out- so allow yourself to be out there. Things come to those that go after them, same as those that stick their necks out more often than others. For myself, I'm ready for it, but I'm not Waiting. I'm addicted to the Chase. I'm addicted to the Crave.