Saturday, February 20, 2016

be who YOU wanna be

Everyone has had dreams, everyone has goals, and everyone wants to do something in their life that they're not currently doing. Why? I personally believe we don't go after our goals and dreams in life because we are truly afraid to be our best self.
We are afraid to do and be who we want to be.
It's getting mighty old hearing about people living a day to day life they can't stand. Now granted, there are many stepping stones people usually don't want to step on before they hit their goals, but that's just part of the game. What I'm talking about is a little gem most commonly referred to as "Settling" - Yes, Settling is a thief. Settling means "Someday" and Someday never happens. What am I talking about? I'm talking about your personal
Someday
We've all had our someday. Someday I'll start exercising. Someday I'll change my diet. Someday I'll go after my dream job. Someday I'll ask out the girl/ guy of my dreams. Someday I'll change. Someday I'll be who I want to be... Somedays sometimes come, and sometimes they don't. The only way to make your someday a reality, is to actually do something today. Just like this video here.
Choose This Day
Changing yourself and setting things straight to a path that better suits you and your dreams is a universal principle. A GOOD one at that. All this crap about "You've changed" is probably a good thing. Stop being half the person you can be, and start living the full life you deserve to be.
Time To Be Who YOU Want
Why can't you have that dream job? Why aren't you living in the place you want? The state you want? Falling in love? Making the impact you could..? Start being who it is you really care to be. It's time to figure it out. Everyone is interested in something. It's time for you to figure out that something. I'm more focused on doing the things in life that make you most happy. Not doing the most easy thing, but doing what TRULY makes you happy. You can always give it your all, and its FUN if you absolutely love it, that's what makes WORK easy. Work itself isn't easy, but work you love makes life pretty sweet, and when life is sweet, it's pretty easy to live with. Alan Watts is a genius for helping you recognize -
What Do You Desire?


(Really do take a look at this...) It's been one of my all-time favorites- because it reminds me that doing something you hate on a day to day basis for 50+ years of your life, is a complete waste of time. You'll spend most of your life working, and helping others make a living. How are you going to spend that time? What are you going to do? I'm supportive 100% of whatever brings happiness to your life. I do the same for me. Again that doesn't mean you don't have to WORK to get your dreams. Quite the contrary. All I'm saying is stop wasting your time investing into something you're not going to do the majority of life. Don't spend so much time with people who pull you down. Stop spending time just "hanging with the homies" - get out there and work your ass off for what you want.
Be Who YOU Wanna Be
Don't let people change You. obviously there is change for the good... So change for the better always, but I'm talking about with what makes you happiest and who makes you happiest. Stop giving in to what people expect you to be, or what profession you should have over another. You need to find the people who are helping you hit your dreams and goals and stick with them. True friends, true mates. You can be who you wanna be. You just got to want it enough, and really fight for it. Athletics, friendships, relationships, service, academics, and anywhere else in the world, it's on you. Stop living under your potential. Start living your life.
Love You all.
Happy 2016 - Live it up. Live Period.